An Oral Sex Nazi is a person who wants to have this service done to them, yet they do not do it for others. Can you all believe that folks are still not performing oral sex on one another?

Everyday I hear comments from women about their man not performing oral sex on them and it still amazes me that men are handing out IOU’s. No, I’m wrong. What’s even more amazing…is that women are allowing this to happen. Conversely, there are men that have come forward about women not performing this service… Continue

A while back I posted a blog entited "ARE WOMEN WHORES FOR MONEY"{http://xcapadesofthegirlz.blogspot.com/2007/06/are-women-whores-for-money.html} ...I have to ask this question and just put it out there...is it okay for women to marry for money?

I look at the BravoTV series of the Real Housewives of OC, NYC, and most recently ATL and I listen to this young 25yo woman say "at first when I met my husband I was not physically attracted to him, but then I realized he was sweet and very successful..… Continue

This is a question for the ladies...

How soon after meeting a man do you know whether or not you would have sex with him? I say its five minutes is all you need, its when he opens his mouth that he usually phucks it up and you shut down like naw, not gonna happen. For some women its after a few words of convo and then they decide.

It is my belief that most women know just from the physical appearance of a man whether or not she would be willing to sleep with him. For instance, I have a friend… Continue

How much of your sexual history should you disclose to a mate? For some women this question remains a constant conflict because how much of the reveal is too much? I advocate truth telling, although we all know that there are some that live in their convoluted and distorted truth. But, in this day and time, it is vitally imperative to your health and welfare to always state the truth.


As adults we understand that you may not want to reveal all...that at one point in our lives we may have done… Continue

This posting stemmed from a discussion about a man who spent a beautiful weekend with his wife and just the way in which he described the weekend prompted the women on the board to state how lucky his wife is to have a loving, caring, and attentive brother such as GRUMPY...it was so on point, that I asked him if I could post it on my blogs...and his response was "if it helps one woman to make the right decision, then hell yeah, post on!"

Here is his response for women...please take heed...
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